idk why ppl always shit over the idea of loving yourself too much to the point of arrogance bc like loving yourself too much is a billion times better than hating yourself even just a lil bit
people who think lesbians are more accepted in society than gay men are idiots
lesbians are more sexualized. they’re seen as a hot thing for straight men to watch but only if both girls are conventionally attractive. otherwise, it’s seen as disgusting or unnatural. that is not acceptance. that is fetishization.